Why an Intimate Muskoka Wedding Might Be the Best Decision You’ll Ever Make (Besides Saying “Yes!”)


Hey there, newly engaged lovebirds! Huge congrats on saying “yes!” Now that you’re on the other side of the proposal, you’re probably bouncing with excitement...and possibly panicking at the thought of planning a *giant* wedding. But don’t sweat it—let’s chat about the option that’s winning hearts (and lowering blood pressures) everywhere: the intimate wedding.


If the thought of saying "I do" without needing a bullhorn appeals to you, here’s why an intimate wedding could be *the* answer.

Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography
Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography
Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography

1. More Meaningful Moments (aka You Won't Have to Google Your Guests)

Think about it: with a small guest list, you actually get to know *everyone* there! Forget the sweaty rounds of forced small talk with long-lost cousins you only see at *other people’s* weddings. Instead, you’ll be savoring heart-to-hearts with the folks who actually know your favorite takeout order and can still quote embarrassing stories from your high school days. Muskoka’s calm, natural surroundings make these moments even more special, whether it’s heartfelt chats under starry skies or toasts in a cozy lakeside venue.



2. Less Stress in Muskoka's laid back vibe

  While a big wedding is amazing, it also comes with a side dish of logistical chaos. A smaller wedding? *Much* easier to manage, leaving you with more time to obsess over the important stuff—like finalizing your dance playlist or making sure your officiant has the funniest stories on standby. Plus, you'll probably save enough on wedding-related headaches to binge-watch *something* between dress fittings.


3. You Get to Splurge (in the *Best* Ways)

 Smaller wedding = a budget that stretches in ways you actually want it to. With a cozy guest list, you can treat yourselves to upgrades without worrying about affording appetizers for 200 people. Fancy Muskoka venue? Done. Next-level photography (I know a good one 😉)? Absolutely. And let's face it—when you’re not hosting everyone you met in high school, you’ll finally be able to afford that cake that actually *tastes* good.


Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography
Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography
Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography

4. Choose a Gorgeous, Off-the-Beaten-Path Spot 

 Who needs a massive banquet hall when you can say your vows under a cozy tree canopy at Limberlost wildlife Preserve, cute cottage on Fairy Lake or with bare feet at Hardwood Lookout trail in Algonquin? The beauty of a small wedding is that you can pick any hidden gem without needing a guest list the size of a small town. Bonus: if you pick one of Muskoka hidden gems (like the Timber Terrace or Arowhon Pines in Algonquin), no one’s likely to crash the party (or show up in questionable footwear).


5. Make It Personal (and Skip the ‘Obligatory’ Stuff)

With an intimate wedding, you’re free to break the rules—or just write your own. Want to write personalized notes to each guest? Amazing. Want to skip the garter toss and keep things, well...classy? You got it. There's something liberating about only having to please yourself and a small crowd (and avoiding your Great Aunt Gertrude's questions about why there’s no polka music in the playlist).


6. Time to Actually Slow Down and Soak It All In

  Imagine this: you’re saying your vows, and instead of planning your exit strategy from the front row, you’re savoring every word. A smaller guest list means a more relaxed pace, giving you time to feel every moment. And you won’t feel like you’re running a one-day marathon of hugs, handshakes, and forced smiles. Bonus: you'll remember more than just the stress sweats by the end of the day.


Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography
Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography

7. Incredible Photos and Videos (Shameless Plug)

 As your soon-to-be photographer (*fingers crossed*), let me tell you that intimate Muskoka weddings are an *absolute dream* to capture. With a relaxed schedule and fewer people, I get to focus on capturing the pure, unfiltered emotions you’re feeling—not just the “smile and wave” shots. Those fleeting glances, belly laughs, and the “oh, they actually teared up” moments? Yeah, those look a whole lot better when they’re real.


8. More Room for Fun (and Skipping Traditions)

 The best part of a small wedding? You can do whatever the heck you want. Want to swap out your first dance for a karaoke session? By all means. Thinking of doing away with a big cake and offering a donut wall instead? You do you! An intimate wedding means less pressure to follow the wedding rulebook and more room to create a day that’s actually *you.*


Wrapping it Up…

 When it comes to planning your Muskoka wedding, don’t forget what the day is really about: you and your person making that big commitment to each other. An intimate wedding lets you focus on the love, the laughs, and the moments that will mean the most to you years down the road. 


So, if an intimate Muskoka wedding feels like your style, go for it! And when you're ready for those memories to be captured, well...let's just say I’d be thrilled to help make them look as incredible as they feel.


**Inquire about your intimate Muskoka wedding today!**

Lakeside Intimate Lake Muskoka Wedding on the dock- Intimate wedding photographer-Alexis Anne Photography